Personal Social Network/Media Policy

Where do you draw the line or do you even have a line? Where does work end and personal life begin? Or does it? Or is it so blurred that you have no idea? Which social media do you use and which do you use effectively? We all know there there is a plethora of social media and networking options, which is constantly growing as time moves forward. Which media option is for anyone and which is for a select “few” (few being quite relative)?

For me, I consistently use Facebook, Twitter, Delicious, and my blogs (recent WordPress convert. While I actually maintain about 4 blogs fairly regularly, each over something specific, except one, a catch all, Travis’s Thoughts). While I use LinkedIn, I struggle with maximizing its use just as even Dave Wilkins, whom I consider to be a Social Media expert (see his article about certifications!), is struggling. I have not yet began to use YouTube or Slideshare effectively yet (well, I may need to create a YouTube channel or something first; that might help). And I know I should be using another Social Media/Network site that I am currently not using.

TWITTER

I use Twitter for a variety of reasons. I actually have more than one account, which has gotten me into trouble in the past. Now that I am learning Twitter more and more, and by no means do I consider myself a social media expert, I believe I am becoming better at Twitter, though I don’t tweet as much as I’d like. I actually do recommend two Twitter accounts, and here’s why.

Not everyone is interested in your or my personal life in detail. I have one twitter friend (actually college buddy) who is constantly tweeting. He literally dominates my Twitter feed over the most annoying and dumbest things from I am having lunch with @whomever and @putnamehere, as if I know who they are! He says the most obvious things, to driving to such and such. His favorite tweet is something like this: past:BLAH BLAH/pres:BLAH/fut:BLAH BLAH. Ok, I may want to know who he knows that is on Twitter, but frankly, I don’t care when he’s driving and where he’s driving. But that’s how he’s chosen to use Twitter as a log book for everything he does. So, solution? I could stop following him, but I don’t want to dog my college friend. While I wish Twitter would create something like Facebook used to have and select an option like (Less of @thisguy and More of @thatgal), but until then he only appears on my Twitter feed but not my device. I feel just don’t need to know what he’s doing every second of the day.

So likewise I know that many in my Twitter world may not care about my personal life so I have one business and one personal which is connected to my Facebook (though sometimes this makes for awkward Facebook status updates). I don’t care whether people blurr the lines and crossover, though I also wish Twitter could make it so that you can tweet the same thing on two accounts (that would be awesome!) because some things are that good to be said among friends, co-workers, and my “Tweet peeps.” As far as I am concerned, people can follow or not follow just as I can follow and not follow. I am either interesting or not, and frankly I know that I am uninteresting sometimes (not recognizing this is foolish). Personally, I’d rather say nothing than say something uninteresting (though this can lead to dry spells). And as Dave Wilkins said, “I didn’t really “get” Twitter until I had a few hundred followers.” While I am not there (and being actually quite new at this), I am growing and learning. So if you want follow me, I would love to have you! @travka.

LINKEDIN (see also, Tony Karrer’s Philosophy here, here, herehere, and here)

I am not really sure how to use this network very well. To me, it is cumbersome and awkward. Why can’t the home screen stop asking me for more contacts? Do I allow any and all people I know to connect to me? Or do I limit it to people I have actually worked with or networked with? For example, should I allow that guy who works in the same company as I do join my network even though I have never met him once in my entire life? Yet, I see great potential with LinkedIn; however, I do not find that people have used it very well, at least in the circles that I run.

Generally, I don’t like to connect to people that I haven’t met in some form or fashion or at least had conversations with over the “phone, IM or Twitter.” So if you want to invite me to join your network, I’d be more than glad, just make sure you send me a message telling me why you want to connect and the nature of our previous connections. This message needs to better than “We are both members of THISGROUP.” Connect with me.

FACEBOOK

Facebook is my preferred social network. I like it much better than MySpace or Bebo or Hi5 or any other simply because it is real and authentic. This is a bit more personal place for me. At one point, I had two Facebook accounts; however, when my place of work decided to forgo this, I dropped the account waiting for them to come back around. However, I like to reserve my Facebook account for people that I actually have met and know, hence I do not have an icon over to the right. Other good social networks like specialty ones on Ning.com are fantastic, but it depends heavily on the community manager.

DELICIOUS & SLIDESHARE

Personally, I love Delicious by itself. While I have not yet understood all of its capabilities and possibilities, I like that I can connect with people and send them links via Delicious. As it stands right now, I am grooming my boss into using this tool.

I also like Slideshare very much. It is actually a fantastic way to create good PPTs together and well if people so chose to go that route. I have learned a great deal from Slideshare and have shown others many of its presentations. I have even used some as a foundation or a starting point to my own personal presentations, which I do not give out or show publicly unless I receive the expressed permission of the original creator unless I feel I have changed it substantially enough to warrant “fair use.”

We all have our own Social Media/Network “policies” written or otherwise. It may be beneficial for you to begin a personal “working” policy that you can change and transform as you learn more. Here are two other policies that helped me as I sat to think/write: here and here. Other people have these policies too, and we need to be aware of them respecting their “virtual space.” Just as Kelley Dingee from Fistful of Talent said, “It’s in your best interest to figure out how to contact them and establish rapport so as not to freak them out or invade their virtual space.”

Social Media Objection

My company (who will remain anonymous, but not too much if you dig deep enough, because of their crazy Google Alerts) has for some time maintained a blanket NO stance against social media. I have been working for months to educate the right people on what it is.My company’s main objection is:

“They [Facebook and Twitter] are both “open ended” systems which means the Unions could join and start distributing their propaganda.  Also, if we support it over our network, we will have to keep track of it for discovery laws since these are communications that occur both inside and outside our company.  This would be next to impossible for us to monitor since it is open ended.” So simply, the objection exists because of employment and labor law and its relationship to social media. Current labor laws force companies to allow the same opportunities for all employees to say something, even if it means to include a union. So in order not to discriminate against those, we simply do not allow it for the entire company. My company has already shut down two “official” Company Facebook pages because of the fear of inappropriate comments (one made by two employees on non-company time, interesting that appeared on another employee’s Facebook page, not the group page or discussion page) and fear that unions will start posting on the site. I completely understand the apprehension against Facebook, as most companies do not use it—not that I agree with it though. However, because of Facebook and Twitter fears, they fear placing one inside our corporate firewall as well. Does anyone know anything about discovery laws and its relation to social media?

My response has been consistent. Here is one edited response that I have used.

I completely understand wanting to close off Facebook and Twitter. They are open applications that could allow for Unions to join and start distributing their propaganda. On the other hand, do we just allow the unions to keep the technology to themselves? Do we not chime in and listen even if we don’t want an official Facebook page or Twitter username? Unions are using these means already. Our own employees are using these means already. And we have no visibility into what is going on except through Google Alerts, which is truthfully inadequate alone. 2007 was the first year that there was more content creation than crawlers, servers, etc. could document and store. Facebook boasts for over 200 active million users! Surely many of our own employees are on this list, and Google does not Google Alert it. At first search without digging, I found 380 people on Facebook from my company (not a large company). A quick search on Myspace.com revealed 112 hits including job postings from their partnerships with job websites. Linkedin.com listed 190 employees. The people at these sites include people from almost every rank.

Furthermore, just today I checked out a public message board that has over 19,900 members, and one thread dedicated to our company. It is already being used for HR information, travel information, corporate communications, policies, unions, compensation, etc.

Again, to my knowledge, these threads are not supported by Google Alerts. So our people are already using social media for “good” and for “bad.” Why not have a discussion board on our intranet for our employees only (i.e. they have to login through their employee #) where we have full visibility? Are we that afraid of our employees? Are our employees that bad? Are we not treating our employees well? Aren’t we making strides to understand our people with our new survey? Will people post bad or negative stuff? Maybe. Maybe not. If they do, we won’t need to do anything because some other loyal and faithful employee at their same level or lower will say something. The community will police itself. There was a hospital who wanted to move away from email because email was being bogged down through too many discussions and announcements. So they created a discussion board for general announcements like cookout for all the ?? employees, and other social type things. For the first six months, it was used what it was created for. At the sixth month mark, they noticed a shift in the conversation. Employees began using it for work. They shared information and knowledge about all sorts of things. Why? Well, the biggest thing that we all have in common here is our company. It’s our work that unites us. It’s the logo, the brand. Yes, if the discussion board is inside, then yes the unions may place something on it but only through an employee. And we know who it is and we can address the root cause, but before they place union information, they’ll be warning signs. Things we can know and address.

As for our LMS, it cannot do some of the things that would greatly benefit us as can blogs, discussion boards, wikis, social networks, etc. Other companies are using blogs and Twitter, and yet they have to submit to the same discovery laws as we do. So how can they do it and we can’t? What good is Twitter? What good is blogging?

Imagine this. Having a tool that pressing one button, it will notify a long list of people instantaneously to their phones. Imagine this. Having a tool that notifies all our customers immediately about a new service, a new program, or some other PR or Marketing campaign. Imagine this: having immediate access to over 500 other professionals who do the same job you do. It’s like being at a conference all day every day. Networking with people. Conversing over hot issues that companies, even competitors can discuss. Helping one another improve through benchmarking. Imagine this. Our president makes a brief announcement via Twitter then everyone of his followers have it immediately on their phone.

Twitter can be used for all sorts of things. It is micro-blogging. It is texting. Currently, we cannot see what people are saying to one another in their cubicles, in the halls, in the stairwell, at the coffee station, in the breakroom, etc. Now imagine being notified every time someone says something. Twitter now can be searched via hashtag, Twitter Alerts (like Google Alerts), by attitude!, by words, etc. Twitter can be used to announce training opportunities, real time advice from the masses, leadership/motivational quotes, etc. Again, it can be whatever we want it to be. It can be whatever we officially deem it to be. It’s fast, simple, and easy.

But does anyone have any information about social media and discovery laws?

Facebook: 25 Things!

How many of us have heard of 25 Random Things about Me? How many of us have been tagged with this? How many of us actually have done it? And how many of us have tried again and again to put it off and put it off hoping and praying that people would just leave us alone realizing that we don’t want to do this  or whatever so eventually “this too will pass”? How many of us have finally broken down and just filled it out, really at random without thought, just to get people off our back?

This youtube video is awesome and very true.

Do you agree?